TickleTree 57 M 1 question Score 0.0	Are there any BDSM clubs in Ottawa? - 10/28/2002 If anyone knows, could you please advise if there are any BDSM clubs or groups in Ottawa, Canada, and how to contact them? Thanx 1 response(s), 0 votes
merubberchicken 52 F 1 question Score 0.0	Anyone been to and liked The Venom Club? - 10/27/2002 I just found out about The Venom Club in Long Island, NY - never heard of it before, curious to check it out - can anyone here tell me about it? how many people show up on a typical Saturday? how much play? [related to previous question too, I know] how new is it? landmarks necessary to find it or is mapquest enough? 0 response(s), 1 vote
slavekd 77 C 2 questions Score 0.0	Reluctant Domme - 10/25/2002 I was wondering if anyone can help us. How can I get my Mistress/wife to take a more dominant role in our relationship? We have met with other couples and once a Pro Domme. She seemed to enjoy it and get into it, but once back home She seems to loose interest. Then we wait several months before we get together with another couple, if then. Help! <br> <br> 0 response(s), 0 votes
felden 72 C 4 questions Score 0.0	Finding the limit in pain and humiliation - 10/23/2002 I am a middle aged male slave my mistress makes me take poppers. The effect is that i can take increasing levels of pain. Beatings, needle insertion, laseration, cock ball and nipple torture and larger and larger things up my asshole which is now very loose. I have become so addicted that i cant get enough and am now into self mutilation and am regularly high trying to find more extremes. ... 3 response(s), 2 votes
otacar1 69 M 1 question Score 0.0	Where is a good source for BDSM books? - 10/15/2002 Where is a good source for BDSM books. I have searched but am not having any luck. 0 response(s), 0 votes
sexualcandymb 53 F 2 questions Score 0.0	Bored in Rhode Island - 10/11/2002 Looking for clubs around or in Providence, RI private or membership. 0 response(s), 0 votes
hsvman35803 52 M 1 question Score 0.0	Several partners seem very interested in getting tied up? But I am new here... - 10/10/2002 Many of my recent sex partners have seemed very interested in getting tied up, etc.. However, being new to this scene I am a bit nervous about taking this to the next step with another novice. Does anyone have advise, tips, suggestions about how I can take these interested young ladies and make their fantasy come true? 0 response(s), 0 votes
chaoskid_us 52 M 1 question Score 0.0	Swinger club in NYC - 10/7/2002 Hi from Frankfurt. <br> I will be in NYC this month and I wondered if I could go to a swinger club. I tried to find one over the internet(allowing single guys in) but I have had no luck. Can someone tell me if there is any club that allows single guys in. In Germany most clubs do, it costs a little bit more but that ok. <br> thanks 0 response(s), 0 votes
anythinggoes390 45 M 1 question Score 0.0	how do i join the scene - 10/6/2002 I have advertised on alt.com but am having no luck with responses i know i waould , ake a good slave with the righttraing but am having no luck.I have been in the chat rooms but am largly ignored what can i do to get attention. Also if anyone knows of any contacts in the stourbridge area of the uk who would take me under their wing and help me meet likeminded individuals 0 response(s), 0 votes
Kronik10 55 M 1 question Score 0.0	Any women on the South Shore that like - 10/2/2002 Any women on the South Shore that just like "watersports"and "masturbation"?I'm looking and coming up empty. 0 response(s), 0 votes
sweetjuicymound 62 F 1 question Score 0.0	Can a surrogate Dom help a hurting subbie? - 10/1/2002 I miss my Master/Lover/Friend/Confidant. He lives far away and my heart, body and mind ache for him. I recently returned from a rendezvous with him in New York. It was wonderful to be with him and we both had a marvelous time but something is different now; something changed. There is now a far more important distance between us. I don’t understand and it saddens me greatly. <br> ... 2 response(s), 0 votes
pandablu 61 F 1 question Score 0.0	How to enlarge/sensitize nipples? - 10/1/2002 I am blessed with very large breasts (44E) but my nipples seem too small and not very sensitive. Can anyone give advice on how to enlarge them permanently and make the more sensitive and responsive? Either by myself or with help of a lover. Are there any kind of vibrators or machines that will do this? Would nipple piercing help, how painful is it? 3 response(s), 0 votes
wolf_hunter01 40 M 1 question Score 0.0	Getting a girl to cum when she doesn't normally - 9/23/2002 My slave doesn't cum no matter what I try, though I haven't tried her sweet spot as of yet... Anyway, if her sweet spot doesn't work is there any other way to make her cum? I would love the help anyone can give. Thanks <br> Okami 3 response(s), 0 votes
UKBDM3 80 M 1 question Score 0.0	What do dogslaves really want? - 9/20/2002 I'm a BDSM Master, and a couple of guys I have met wanted to be real dogslaves, but I can't really understand what real dogslaves want. A Master cannot ask a dogslave whats he wants as the answer is always "Whatever the Master wants". But neither of the two guys seemed satisfied with standard BDSM and the really cute one won't come back. Yes you can make them run around on all fours on a ... 1 response(s), 0 votes
SmallBlond 64 F 1 question Score 0.0	Walking the walk - Why are guys so timid? - 9/18/2002 I like to experiment - and most men say they do too - the problem is when I still want to and am willing to do these o-so-fun things they say they want to do to me, they get "uncomfortable" - they lie and then I am that one who feels discomfort and shame. <br> What's with that? What's light bondage, a little 3-way or nipple clamps? Lightweight, right? It's not youth alone - ... 4 response(s), 0 votes
Hot2Bhad 37 M 1 question Score 0.0	I am an attractive 23 yo male, how do i find a good Mistrtess - 9/17/2002 I am really desperate in trying to find a good, and Good looking Mistress in the Omaha area. I know i would love to serve the right women in any way possible but i need to be trainned how to be a good sex/slave boy. please help!!!!!!! 0 response(s), 0 votes
SweetMaster3 57 M 1 question Score 0.0	Clubs in LA? - 9/16/2002 I will be in LA the week on October 6 and would like to play. Can anyone give me the lowdown on the clubs in LA, especially one(s) where an un- attached Dom can participate? I am aware that this is a problem situation, i.e., being a Dom w/o a Sub, and that some clubs, if not exactly prohibiting it, discourage single male Doms from joining in, particularly if they are unfamiliar to ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
weirdandcurious 50 M 1 question Score 0.0	Anyone in Fort Worth/Dallas? - 9/15/2002 I am new to this sort of thing. Right now I am just curious, really curious. What I would like to know is if there are any clubs or groups i the DFW(preferably FtW) area where a newcomer can just meet some folks, talk things over, and maybe get a taste to see if they really do want to explore further. Any advice and/or help would be appreciated. Thank you, ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
danzeg 52 M 20 questions Score 0.0	CAN A SUB like - 9/15/2002 yes i want a sub to tease please but i wan tone for scenes and sodamy for a change.Any subs out there that like that? 1 response(s), 0 votes
eyebrow 48 M 1 question Score 0.0	Is there any dungons or mistreses in cardif to teach a newcomer a lesson or two? - 9/14/2002 just moved 2 cardiff, s.wales. dont know many people just wondering if there was anyone lookig for a slave 1 response(s), 0 votes
captdoug 77 M 1 question Score 0.0	are there many women who like to fist straight men? - 9/13/2002 for 20 years with multiple lovers i have been fisted by women[i'm a no doubt straight man]and am curious how many women are into it and how many straight men have been able to enjoy it given the inhibitions of male culture. 0 response(s), 1 vote
mistressvirginia 66 F 2 questions Score 0.0	need help controling my slave - 9/7/2002 hi i'm new to this and the man i want for my slave can't give me the time of day we talk all the time about what he likes and how he want to be controled i make him weak with my words but to get him under my power is a driffrent thing and i love this slave and it hurt see him with other mistress he dose not give me a second glance...i really need some help 0 response(s), 0 votes
kaap143 59 F 1 question Score 0.0	how do you know what your mate wants - 9/6/2002 I am a woman in my late 30's I have been out of the dating scene for a very long time. how do I know what my partner wants? I'am afraid I will scare him if I let my true feelings come out. I could use all the help yall are willing to give me 0 response(s), 1 vote
pippin69 53 F 1 question Score 0.0	How do you get started? - 9/4/2002 I am brand new to all this. I am a happily married woman who has always been interested in bdsm, but husband is not. I thought I'd try a few things virtually to find out how much this really suits/doesn't suit me. I have looked around and most of the profiles seem to want longer commitments than what I'm looking for. Help! 0 response(s), 0 votes
littlehorror 44 M 1 question Score 0.0	want to learn/read about being a dom. - 8/31/2002 I am new to the idea of the bdsm ideas. that is I have been the dominant person in relationships, but not in a BDSM one. <br> Are there any books or on-line services that can help me to learn about; - the "making" of a dom. - explain the different scenes (c & B, etc) - selection of a sub/partner, and finally how to 'train' the sub (set standards). <br> Any ... 0 response(s), 1 vote
devilishdestiny 41 F 1 question Score 0.0	1st time anal sex for a sub... - 8/25/2002 i am a female submissive that has had all other forms of sex but never anal. i know my master enjoys it and i think i might but i dont know how to get on the subject... i then i dont know what to do. 1 response(s), 0 votes
nicenthick8 65 M 1 question Score 0.0	Are there any clubs in S. CA for people into watersports? - 8/19/2002 I really enjoy having a sexy woman piss on my face and in my mouth. I also enjoy having her start pissing while I'm eating her. This can be very hot for both of us. I've also recieved golden showers from men and this can be very hot as well. Are there any clubs or organizations that cater to this? 1 response(s), 0 votes
earthangelgrl 38 F 1 question Score 0.0	how can u get a decent male into bondage and playrape - 8/14/2002 How do you get a decent man one with a lot of respect for women to tie me up. i'm into bdsm my boy firend isn;t how can i get him to do the things to me i want him to. 0 response(s), 1 vote
SassySub57 67 F 1 question Score 0.0	Married Men?? - 8/12/2002 why do married men lie about their status to women, why not be truthful in the beginning and see what happens, by lying you make the woman wonder what else you may have lied about to them?? 0 response(s), 0 votes
sarahsmiles66 59 C 2 questions Score 0.0	I'm new, What are the true basic's for being a sub? - 8/10/2002 I have the desire, but lack something......I have always been in love with the person I wish to be my master...he is giving me the chance to prove myself.....and prove myself I MUST!!!! What are the things I should know? what are big no-no's? Please help me!! 0 response(s), 1 vote